These principles come from James and Mildred, a couple who has been married for 52 years. 

 

Here are the 3 things they thought made all the difference in their marriage:

 

1.  We made a commitment that whenever we had a disagreement, we would listen to each other and try to find a solution that we both thought was right.

 

James commented: As you can imagine, we've had a lot of differences; especially in the early years.  We spent a lot of time listening and looking for solutions, but it all payed off because we have lived in harmony for 52 years.  We have 4 children all of whom are happily married.

 

2.  We made a commitment to love each other no matter what happened, and to be there for each other.

 

Mildred commented: I came down with Multiple Sclerosis a few years ago.  Physically, things have gotten worse for me, but James has been there for me through the whole time.  I could not have asked for more support.

 

3.  It has also been a habit of ours to continue growing by reading books on marriage, and to attend one marriage enrichment event a year.

 

I am convinced that consistently living these 3 simple principles will greatly deepen and enrich any marriage because they are practical, applicable, and have proven results.

 

What have you found helpful in your marriage?

 

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